The Blog Wants to Know: May 2025

May is Mental Health Awareness Month, and with the end-of-school year and summer stress looming, it’s a great time to chat about managing stress.

What are some tips, tricks, methods, and resources you use to de-stress? How do you take care of your mental health and what have you found that works for you?  

Maycie, Public Support Services: Quiet time is so important! I recommend a dark quiet room for when you have sensory overload. Don’t overestimate what laying on the floor for a minute can do for your mental well-being. You have to remember to give your brain, your ears and your eyes all a break together during the day and just when you’re sleeping.

Also adopt a cat (or two) … they help a lot.

Maycie’s kitties, Barrett and Chopin

Kathy, Public Support Services: My biggest joy is actually reading so I end my day reading for about 30 minutes.  I let the book take me away from everything else and then I am ready to go to sleep.

Emily B., Public Support Services: Anxiety is always something I have struggled with, and while journaling is easy, it’s hard for me to be consistent. I found an app called How We Feel and I cannot recommend it enough! It helps you dissect your feelings and helps you get to the source of your problem. It also has several other techniques to help de-stress and manage negative thoughts. It’s entirely free too!

Shane, Public Support Services: As a college student, I often have overlapping deadlines and workloads with each class having its own structure. This semester was a unique challenge with two accelerated courses and two regular courses (and I will be doing the same thing for the summer semester).

To manage my stress, I plan out my time using a day planner (I use the Happy Planner weekly layout) and I color code each class. I write down my work schedule, due dates, appointments, social obligations, etc. and plan out when I will work on assignments. If I have a large assignment, I find breaking it up into little chunks much easier than trying to deal with the whole assignment. That way, “I have to write a 10 page paper by this date” becomes “I have to write the four paragraphs of my paper today.” Also, it always helps to plan a break day to let my mind rest and recover and enjoy myself so I can be more productive the next day. It’s important to enjoy yourself even when you’re busy!

Megan, Outreach Coordinator: How I de-stress is by putting in ear buds, playing some Kendrick Lamar and artists similar, and deep clean/organize my space. 

Alyssa, Adult and Teen Services Coordinator: When I’m stressed, either I need to move my body or I need to be a quiet, lazy blob . For movement, going for a walk, practicing yoga, or even just putting on some music and dancing around the house can really help. I often watch SarahBethYoga videos if I want to follow an instructor or a guided meditation. I do also love boxing or HIIT workouts like this one just to get all of that built-up cortisol and adrenaline out. And for peak blob-form, I’ll get in this shark onesie, turn on a comfort show, and turn off my phone!

Shelia, Interlibrary Loan and Cataloguing: My go-to for stress relief is usually being out in the sun and/or spending time with our various pets. My husband and I recently purchased bikes and getting out and riding always puts a smile on my face and makes me feel better.

Trinity, Page: When I’m stressed, I spend time with my dog. She’s a cuddlebug and I can’t say no to her puppy eyes! 

Hannah, Assistant Director: I wear an Oura ring to monitor my biometrics, and I’ve been using the Finch app for the last month to prioritize my mental health and my productivity. I’m a big fan of meditation as well. I’ve used almost all the apps…Headspace, Calm, Mindllama, and the Mindfulness app on my Apple Watch.

Dawn, Youth Services Coordinator: For de-stressing I tend to talk to friends and listen to music. Going to a movie or streaming something also helps me de-stress. I try to make lists so I don’t overwhelm myself both at home and work. It’s so gratifying to cross off things on a list once I get them accomplished. 

Now it’s your turn! What works for you when you’re dealing with stress? Let us know in the blog comments below!

Resource of the Month: America’s News

When I was a small child, I often had sleepovers at my grandparents’ house on the weekends. Every time, I looked forward to Sunday mornings, curled up on the couch with my grandpa, his coffee, and the Sunday newspaper. He’d usually grab the sports section first and pass the funnies to me.

Today in the year 2025, this activity can continue. However, it might look a little different, since most of us read our news on our phones or tablets. Thanks to the online database America’s News, available with your Derby Public Library card, families can still read the Sunday paper together, just on your iPad or other tablet.

Through America’s News, library patrons can read full color digital versions of the Wichita Eagle from 2018 to today. Articles from the Eagle are searchable from 1984 to today. Additional content is also available from the Topeka Capital-Journal and the Kansas City Star.

To access America’s News, click on the Research & Learn tab on the library’s website using the internet browser on your computer, tablet, or phone. If you are accessing from home, enter your library card number when prompted.

What’s Ashley Reading?: The Hunger Games trilogy

The Hunger Games trilogy by Suzanne Collins

First line: When I wake up, the other side of the bed is cold.

Summary: Ever since the rebellion against the Capitol, the districts are forced yearly send one boy and one girl to fight to the death in the Hunger Games.  For decades the districts have complied and submitted to the games but tensions are rising among the populace.  Katniss Everdeen volunteers in place of her sister in the games and slowly wins the hearts of the Capitol residents and the districts.  As she fights to survive the arena it appears that a fire may be catching throughout Panem. 

<b>My Thoughts:</b> It has been years since I read The Hunger Games trilogy but after reading the latest installment, Sunrise on the Reaping, I decided it was a perfect time to revisit the original stories.  As I went through each book and movie I noticed things that Collins built upon.  Now that I was able to connect more with Haymitch and his story it gives a deeper look at his motives and personality.  Little details I would never have remembered from my first reading became clearer.  Characters that we know and love are able to seem more real and have deeper backstories.  There were many times where I would smile or gasp as something happens that connects to Haymitch’s story.  Katniss’ story is still as heart wrenching as the first time I read it but it is now richer because of the addition. 

If you recently read the new book, then I would highly recommend re-reading the trilogy.  It gave me a whole new appreciation for the author and her work. 

Bookworm Buffet: A Feast for your Reading Senses

Bookworm Buffet: May 2025

Welcome to Bookworm Buffet! Get ready to feast on three literary delights, each served up in a different format: physical, digital ebook, and audiobook.

May’s Spread –

Genre: Contemporary, Women’s Fiction, Romance-ish

Summary:
Alice Scott is an eternal optimist still dreaming of her big writing break. Hayden Anderson is a Pulitzer-prize winning human thundercloud. And they’re both on balmy Little Crescent Island for the same reason: To write the biography of a woman no one has seen in years—or at least to meet with the octogenarian who claims to be the Margaret Ives. Tragic heiress, former tabloid princess, and daughter of one of the most storied (and scandalous) families of the 20th Century.

But the problem is, Margaret is only giving each of them pieces of her story. Pieces they can’t swap to put together because of an ironclad NDA and an inconvenient yearning pulsing between them every time they’re in the same room. And it’s becoming abundantly clear that their story—just like the tale Margaret’s spinning—could be a mystery, tragedy, or love ballad…depending on who’s telling it.

Publication: April 22, 2025

Genre: Dystopian, Young Adult, Science Fiction

Summary:
In the ruins of a place once known as North America lies the nation of Panem, a shining Capitol surrounded by twelve outlying districts. The Capitol is harsh and cruel and keeps the districts in line by forcing them all to send one boy and one girl between the ages of twelve and eighteen to participate in the annual Hunger Games, a fight to the death on live TV.

Sixteen-year-old Katniss Everdeen regards it as a death sentence when she steps forward to take her sister’s place in the Games. But Katniss has been close to dead before-and survival, for her, is second nature. Without really meaning to, she becomes a contender. But if she is to win, she will have to start making choices that weigh survival against humanity and life against love.

Publication: September 14, 2008

Genre: Gothic, Horror, Paranormal
Read for: Hauntingly Good Reads Book Club

Summary:
Anna has two rules for the annual Pace family destination vacations: Tread lightly and survive.

It isn’t easy when she’s the only one in the family who doesn’t quite fit in. Her twin brother, Benny, goes with the flow so much he’s practically dissolved, and her older sister, Nicole, is so used to everyone—including her blandly docile husband and two kids—falling in line that Anna often ends up in trouble for simply asking a question. Mom seizes every opportunity to question her life choices, and Dad, when not reminding everyone who paid for this vacation, just wants some peace and quiet.
The gorgeous, remote villa in tiny Monteperso seems like a perfect place to endure so much family togetherness, until things start going off the rails—the strange noises at night, the unsettling warnings from the local villagers, and the dark, violent past of the villa itself.

Publication: March 26, 2024

The Lineup: Alyssa

TV Show: Summer Camp Island

This is one of my all-time favorite comfort shows. Unlike most cartoons (or really most TV Show these days), this show is so gentle and soothing. It follows two best friends, Oscar and Hedgehog, while they’re away at a magical summer camp led by three witches. The show has everything; musical yetis (with one voiced by Elijah Wood), ingenious elves, talking trees, dancing aliens, a shark who’s a licensed therapist, and a friendly moon. It’s pure magic!

Books: The Silmarillion Collector’s Edition

I tackled J.R.R. Tolkien’s world-building behemoth, The Silmarillion, a few years ago, and I’ve always wanted to give it a re-read. While strolling through Barnes and Noble, I found this edition and had to get it! It’s got this beautiful blue hardcover with the Two Trees of Valinor and the three Silmarils perfectly highlighted. The inside is fairly straightforward with a colorful map and decently-sized text, but the spine is flexible enough to lay flat which is perfect for all the note-taking I plan on doing. It’s even got a built-in bookmark. I feel like a Tolkien scholar walking around with this!

Coffee: NesCafe Gold Espresso Instant Coffee

I’m a coffee fiend. Whether hot or cold, flavored or unflavored, I’m into all the robust dark-roasted coffees. For the past few years I’ve been making pour-over coffee each morning which, while effective, does take a little time and clean-up. As I approach the hectic summer season, I was looking for something quicker and stronger. I found this NesCafe Gold on YouTube Shorts and O. M. G. it’s amazing! Just two teaspoons, some boiling water, and you have dark, rich, espresso-like coffee that even has a lovely crema on top. Perfect for iced lattes or my fave almond milk lattes. It is on the pricey side, but it lasts a while and it’s way cheaper than hitting up the drive-thru line.

Hobbies: Cat Full of Spiders Tarot Deck

In preparation for a trip to Planet Comicon in Kansas City where I planned on meeting the incredible Christina Ricci, I purchased her tarot deck, Cat Full of Spiders. I’ve always had a love of tarot, and this deck is so fun! It highlights a lot of her movies, but in subtle, secretive ways. I’ve done some deep digging into each of the cards to find all the meanings and references. And meeting Christina was so awesome!!

Streaming: Dropout

I stumbled on Dropout from seeing random YouTube shorts and thought I’d try the full subscription. Their content is amazing! It’s hilarious and random, but also really thoughtful at times and such a great company. I love shows like Game Changer and Make Some Noise which both have a “Whose Line Is It Anyway” improv vibe. The Dimension 20 series is also great, especially the season called “Burrow’s End.” Highly recommend giving Dropout a try, even just for a month. It’s worth the money!

What’s Ashley Reading?: Murder By Cheesecake

Murder By Cheesecake by Rachel Ekstrom Courage

First line: Rose Nylund whispered into the lemon-yellow telephone receiver, twisting the cord tightly between her fingers, her words obscured by the gurgling of the coffee percolator.

Summary: Picture it…Miami. Rose Nylund is planning a beautiful St. Olaf wedding in Miami but things are not going as planned. She is working against the groom’s snobby family and the fact that Dorothy’s date was found face first in a cheesecake in the hotel’s freezer. What else could go wrong? Well it appears that Dorothy may be the prime suspect in the man’s death since their one and only date was disaster. The girls are determined to clear Dorothy’s name, find the killer and make sure the wedding goes off without any more problems.

My Thoughts: Several years ago I binge watched The Golden Girls for the first time and absolutely loved it! Those ladies were witty and the show as completely ridiculous but it is perfection in sitcom TV. When I saw that we were getting a Golden Girls mystery series, I was all in. It was a cute, quirky and silly murder mystery. In all it was exactly what you’d expect from these ladies. The things they did while pursuing the criminal were outlandish and the St. Olaf wedding preparations were beyond kooky. It could easily have been an extended episode of the show. While is it nothing overly fantastic it fits perfectly in The Golden Girls fandom by giving all the silliness and wit of the characters that many of us love. If you love the show you will like the book too.

Bookworm Buffet: A Feast for your Reading Senses

Bookworm Buffet: April 2025

Welcome to Bookworm Buffet! Get ready to feast on three literary delights, each served up in a different format: physical, digital ebook, and audiobook.

April’s Spread –

Genre: Dystopian, Young Adult, Science Fiction

Summary:
When you’ve been set up to lose everything you love, what is there left to fight for?

As the day dawns on the fiftieth annual Hunger Games, fear grips the districts of Panem. This year, in honor of the Quarter Quell, twice as many tributes will be taken from their homes.
Back in District 12, Haymitch Abernathy is trying not to think too hard about his chances. All he cares about is making it through the day and being with the girl he loves.
When Haymitch’s name is called, he can feel all his dreams break. He’s torn from his family and his love, shuttled to the Capitol with the three other District 12 tributes: a young friend who’s nearly a sister to him, a compulsive oddsmaker, and the most stuck-up girl in town. As the Games begin, Haymitch understands he’s been set up to fail. But there’s something in him that wants to fight . . . and have that fight reverberate far beyond the deadly arena.

Publication: March 18, 2025

Genre: Sports Romance, Contemporary, Adult Fiction

Summary:
Scarlett Vandermeer is swimming upstream. A Junior at Stanford and a student-athlete who specializes in platform diving, Scarlett prefers to keep her head down, concentrating on getting into med school and on recovering from the injury that almost ended her career. She has no time for relationships—at least, that’s what she tells herself.
Swim captain, world champion, all-around aquatics golden boy, Lukas Blomqvist thrives on discipline. It’s how he wins gold medals and breaks records: complete focus, with every stroke. On the surface, Lukas and Scarlett have nothing in common. Until a well-guarded secret slips out, and everything changes.
So they start an arrangement. And as the pressure leading to the Olympics heats up, so does their relationship. It was supposed to be just a temporary, mutually satisfying fling. But when staying away from Lukas becomes impossible, Scarlett realizes that her heart might be treading into dangerous water…

Publication: February 5, 2025

Genre: Mystery, Thriller, Dark Academia, Young Adult
Read for: Wine & YA Book Club

Summary:
Sade Hussein is starting her third year of high school, this time at the prestigious Alfred Nobel Academy boarding school. After being home-schooled all her life and feeling like a magnet for misfortune, she’s not sure what will happen. What she doesn’t expect though is for her roommate Elizabeth to disappear after Sade’s first night. Or for people to think she had something to do with it.
With rumors swirling around her, Sade catches the attention of the most popular girls in school – collectively known as the ‘Unholy Trinity’ – and they bring her into their fold. Between learning more about them – especially Persephone, who Sade finds herself drawn to – playing catch-up in class, and trying to figure out what happened to Elizabeth, Sade has a lot on her plate. It doesn’t help that she’s already dealing with grief from the many tragedies in her family.

And then a student is found dead..

Narrated by: Natalie Simpson
Publication: March 14, 2024

The Blog Wants to Know – April 2025

The first full week of April was National Library Week and in celebration of our beloved libraries, we asked the staff to journey back to their first experiences at their local library.

Do you remember a library that you loved going to as a kid or a teen? What and where was that library? What were some of your favorite books to check out from the library as a kid or a teen? 

Hannah, Assistant Director: When I was a kid, we always went to the downtown Wichita Library. I loved that old building…walking up the stairs to the third-floor children’s room. I checked out every single Johnny Dixon book by John Bellairs.

Kristy H., Public Support Services: Emporia Library, I remember riding bikes just to get to the library and the 2-story building that had an elevator. They had little kid’s chairs shaped like the white Mork and Mindy egg chairs that just cradle you like a glove. I would check out the Cam Jansen books. They were the best mystery books ever! I still have my library card from my youth!

Shane, Public Support Services: I always read a lot growing up. My relationship with libraries started when I took a “Library Aide” class in middle school where I would shelve/straighten books and check books in/out for other students for one period a day. I also made a large display on a book of choice as part of the “class.” This was during my middle school years, so I remember checking out every “Hank the Cowdog” book that we had there before moving on to Christopher Pike novels. I grew up in the country so I didn’t really have access to a public library while growing up.

Eric, Director: I can remember frequently visiting the McPherson Public Library when I was growing up.  At one point, I was trying to read every sports and mystery book in the juvenile section.  My brother and I often rode our bikes to the library, filled our backpacks with books and then stopped by the baseball card shop on the way home.

Dawn S., Youth Services Coordinator: I grew up going to the Westlink Branch Library in Wichita. I would check out Amelia Bedelia and I loved reading From the Mixed-Up Files of Mrs. Basil E. Frankweiler. I told the children’s librarian I would someday work there, and I did.

Shelia, Interlibrary Loan and Cataloguing: One of my favorite libraries was my high school library. I was able to work there as a student librarian.  Some of my favorite reads was “The Black Stallion”, “Man O’War” and “Where the Red Fern Grows.”

Alyssa, Adult and Teen Services: I grew up in Houston, Texas, and I loved taking the city bus with my mom to the huge Houston Public Library downtown. It had a giant escalator in the middle of the lobby and four different levels including an academic level for university students. I would hang out in the teen section on the bean bag chairs and read Amelia Atwater-Rhodes’ books or the paperback spin-offs of the TV Show, Charmed.

Emily B., Public Support Services: When I was still in middle school, after school got out, me and my close friend would walk to the Rose Hill Public Library and we would spend hours together just talking and reading. I remember feeling very welcomed and it became such a comfort place for me. My favorite books to check out were any of Maggie Stiefvater’s books, but specifically the Shiver series!

Tabbitha, Youth Services: My childhood involved frequent moves, helping me explore many diverse libraries in Illinois, Arkansas, California, and Kansas. However, Kansas libraries always held a special place in my heart. My all-time favorite library growing up was the Newton Public Library in Newton, KS. It’s large children’s area filled with wonderful books and literacy resources, was a weekly haven for me. It was actually at this library that I read my first book, ‘Hop on Pop’, independently. I loved checking out Arthur books, School House Rock DVD’s, and an abundance of non-fiction books on the solar system.

As a teenager, the Derby Public Library was a valuable asset. It was here that I found a love for the tranquility of a quiet library and having a place to read on the weekends, somewhere other than home. During the week, it was also a great place to come finish homework or just catch up with friends.

Ashley, Interlibrary Loan and Cataloguing: Growing up, the library in Hesston was just down the street from our house.  During the summer we would be in and out of the library constantly getting books, hanging out in the bean bag chairs and completing the summer reading challenge.  I don’t remember any big prizes.  It may have just been pieces of candy for reading so many books.  My aunt would also take my sister and cousins to the library when she was taking care of us in the summer.  We would usually spend the days playing together, going to the pool a LOT and having dedicated reading time.  The librarians knew us by name and we rarely needed to take our library cards with us.  It was and still is a fairly small library but it was a place I loved visiting often as a kid.

Now it’s your turn! What was your favorite library to visit as a kid and what were some of your favorite books to check out?

Resource of the Month: ConsumerReports.org

We’ve probably all experienced some version of this scenario: your beloved [insert vital kitchen appliance here] stops working, and the repairman says that it is going to cost more to fix it than it would to replace it. You make a trip to Lowe’s and wander the major appliance section completely overwhelmed with your choices.

There’s a better way to decide what dishwasher, refrigerator, or range to buy. Check out this month’s Resource of the Month from your Derby Public Library: ConsumerReports.org. Visit the library’s website, click on the Research & Learn tab, and then choose the ConsumerReports.org database. Just enter your library card number when prompted and browse the easy-to-use site.

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For over 80 years, Consumer Reports has been providing independent, rigorous, unbiased reviews on just about every product a consumer can buy. They conduct independent testing on thousands of products each year, from refrigerators and washing machines to cars, electronics, diapers, and even food items.

Skip the hassle of googling the product you need or want to purchase and scrolling through hundreds of potentially unreliable and biased reviews. ConsumerReports.org is a comprehensive resource, providing not only excellent product reviews on a wide range of categories but also valuable information on services, such as money management, online safety and security, insurance policies, and healthcare.

If you have questions on how to use this resource, stop by the library’s front desk and ask a staff member for assistance.

What’s Ashley Reading?: Sunrise on the Reaping

Sunrise on the Reaping by Suzanne Collins

First line: “Happy birthday, Haymitch!”

Summary: As the morning of the 50th Hunger Games dawns, Haymitch Abernathy is among the group of children of District 12 who wait as names are picked as tributes but this year is different. To commemorate the fiftieth year, four tributes will be chosen from each district to compete in the games. As Haymitch hears his name called he is forced to believe that he most likely will never see his family or the girl he loves ever again.

Upon arrival in the Capitol he comes face to face with the people who are relishing in the deaths of children. As he becomes more familiar with the world around him his anger increases against those that are determined to keep the districts down. But what can a kid from District 12 do? Using his hope of survival, recklessness and drive to help those he cares about he plans to bring the Capitol and the Games to their knees.

My Thoughts: Ever since I saw this book announced I couldn’t wait to read it. I LOVED the original trilogy and enjoyed the other prequel, even if it was about Snow. I had to know what Haymitch’s life was like before Katniss and Peeta and I believe Suzanne Collins completely delivered. From page one until the last it brought me back to my love of the originals and gave me more to mull over as I decided I needed to reread The Hunger Games.

Even though I was dying to read this I made myself take my time. I read 30-50 pages a night rather than devouring it in one sitting. It was an emotional roller coaster. I had hopes of seeing other characters and this was exactly what we get. With each person’s introduction I had to set the book down and collect my thoughts on them and what this may mean to the story. But even with knowing how it’s going to end, I was still on the edge of my seat as I finished the Games portion and then the aftermath for everyone involved. It was everything I wanted from this book and more.

If you loved The Hunger Games trilogy and are willing to go back into the arena, then I would highly recommend picking this one up as soon as you can! It adds so much to the original trilogy and gives a whole new appreciation for those who help Katniss and Peeta throughout their story.

FYI: As with the original stories this one is filled with death, violence and other triggering themes but it also has a story of hope too.